"I was comforted as I kept thinking,You felt that way, too,
Joi? As different as our experiences were as relinquished and adopted people, a lot of what we felt was the same. The deep seriousness of this memoir is threaded through with anecdotes that bring both tears and laughter. I am so glad that Joi took the time to chronicle her journal so carefully so that she could share it with us."
Pam Hasegawa, Spokesperson, NJ Coalition for Adoption Reform and Education
“Bravo! Joi's honest, moving story of self-discovery, adoption and re-union is a moving, important addition of books by and about the adoption experience written by adopted people themselves.Alison Larkin, Comedienne, award-winning audiobook narrator, and bestselling author of The English American, a novel
“Finding Joi is filled with heartfelt questions, everyday situations, and emotions, that shed light on the myriad of challenges adoptees face in searching for answers to our existence. Although the journey of every adoptee is different, the similarities are uncanny; whether male or female, young or old, adoptees knowledge of our birth parents and family history are critical to healing, forgiveness and filling the constant void in our lives. Joi’s story resonated with me on many levels and I am grateful to have connected with her. Regardless of success, accolades, or stature, at the end of the day, all adoptees want to know, “Who Am I Really?” I hope that Joi’s story encourages other adoptees to share their truth and find peace in their discovery.”
Damon Davis, Host, “Who Am I... Really?” Podcast
“Joi Fisher's memoir is one of the most insightful books of an adoptee's journey that I have ever read. Joi speaks to her experiences on so many levels that it is a MUST READ for everyone touched by adoption (Adoptees, Adoptive parents, Birth parents, siblings, etc.). I couldn't put it down!”
Tom McGee, Co-facilitator, Morristown Post Adoption Support Group Adoption Activist, NJCARE (New Jersey Coalition for Adoption Reform)
“I have known Joi for quite a some time but was not aware that she was adopted until a couple of years ago. Through reading her book, I found her story to be rather fascinating. Through her pen, I walked along her journey with her. Her story is one of a compelling complete self-discovery. Not only is it a fascinating read, but there are a plethora of lessons for the non-adopted reader to take away as well.”
Principal Baruti Kafele, Educator / Author
“I love reading about adopted people helping each other. Joi's book will help others by passing along so honestly the lessons she's learned.”
Penny Callan Partridge, Co-founder in 1973 of Adoption Forum of Philadelphia
